Since the addition of crossplay being added to Bleeding Edge during its beta stage, I have notice that there has been a-lot more server issues. Before the addition to crossplay, their wasn't as much lag, rubber-banding, etc. I feel that the optimization for console isn't up to par with the PC counter-part. If there is a way to make console have a smoother experience in regards to gameplay, it would be great! But for right now, I don't think BE is ready for cross-play until both platforms have been optimized for synergic performance. Perhaps have a toggle for players to disable and enable crossplay and see if server stability gets better.
